As from my previous post about 12-15 months of Miros journey, where I mentioned the crucial importance of movement in his life, the need has just increased with time. There is not a single shelf he has not climbed, not a single fence he did not try to cross or a tree he did not intend to climb. He is so much more into climbing than his sister who was more into dancing and fine motorics in the same age. Every child is so different. I am sure you have not heard a lot about children who go to sleep with their metal pan or bagger, well our Miro does ❤ He in unique in ever sense. Having a strong willed child can bring so many challenges, but it also results in your increase in knowledge and keep learning every day. Most materials that were interesting to Natalia in this age, such as sorting by colour and real puzzles (3 piece etc) are of no interest to Miro. In this regard I really love following Montessori citations:
“It is necessary, then, to give the child the possibility of developing according to the laws of his nature, so that he can become strong, and, having become strong, can do even more than we dared hope for him.“
I must say especially this phrase resonates with us, we did not have a lot of expectations from Miro, since he loved so much running after ball and dribbling we thought he could be a good football player (for few months he showed interest only and exclusively in ball). We even made fun that at least as football player he ll be able to earn more money and have a decent life, and many family members just compared Miro to Modric (famous Croatian football player).
But the truth is we did not try hard enough to really follow him, especially in those challenging months (15-18 in his case;). He has just suddenly surprised us from speaking only few words in summer to complete explosion of vocabulary in december where he started fluently speaking in 3 languages, speaking actually more than Natalia in that age. Ofcourse, he has an amazing mentor – his older sister, and she did not have this privilege. I would love to add two more beautiful Marias phrases:
“The child is the spiritual builder of mankind, and obstacles to his free development are the stones in the wall by which the soul of man has become imprisoned.”
“The secret of good teaching is to regard the child’s intelligence as a fertile field in which seeds may be sown, to grow under the heat of flaming imagination.”
We have discovered the true passion of Miro – cooking, I thought Natalia likes cooking, but this little guy, he adores cooking. Whenever he sees you are taking some pan or bowl to do something in the kitchen he ll just appear there bring his chair and demand he takes part in cooking. And cooking is our main educational tool with Miro – thanks to cooking he is amazing in fine motorics (mixing, pouring, adding, cutting, frying just name it he is an expert) and counting. When we make cakes he counts spoons (he can follow depicted recipe but still doesn’t recognize written numbers so I just draw 5 spoons and he adds than 5 spoons..etc). There is a video in the comments here Miro like pro preparing lunch
In order to provide your kids freedom and teach them idependence and avoid hearing constantly “Mom ,please give me some water, I’m thirsty – the best ever 4 euro investment was into the water pitcher which is in daily use:D
About toilet learning – lets say we are not in hurry, whenever Natalia goes to toilet he also has to go and then he really uses toilet, also when we re in restaurants, for some weird reason he loves to do his stuff in restaurant toilets regularly but not at home, hmmm… He still does not self initiate and we do not plan to force it, his time will come, I know when he will be ready transformation will appear in one day.
He loves to help around the garden but most of all he loves to copy paste the work of his big sister, whatever she does he also has to try, one must say he indeed has the best teacher possible, Natalia is so patient and sometimes knows better than me how to avoid any of Miros tantrums 🙂
What are your 2 year olds up to?:D